All who have accomplished great things have had a great aim, have fixed their gaze on a goal which was high, one which sometimes seemed impossible. This is something I often repeat, however I cannot stress highly enough the need to know what you want, and to define a singular, overriding goal for your life. We do not need to know how we will accomplish that, we just need to be mindful that the things we do, move forward this singular purpose.

Wednesday, July 28, 2010

HOW TO HANDLE YOUR JOB LOSS

Some job-seekers see job loss an avenue for new opportunities while others may take it quite negatively. This is important to note that it is quite natural to be filled with negative emotions after a job loss. A job loss affects individuals in a number of ways. Some common feelings that it may bring include loss of personal identity, loss of a network and emotional unpreparedness. To replace your negative feelings with positivity, here are some important steps to follow.

Adjusting & Accepting
It is advisable to use some psychology in case of a job loss. Many researches and studies have been conducted to cope with job loss. According to the researchers, it has come to light that people can handle a job loss circumstance easily if they are prepared in advance about what feeling they are going to experience. If you want to make yourself ready to muster up the courage and energy to move beyond this situation, you need to accept the situation.

Keeping Healthy
Circumstances like these need strength and the power to endure. You will feel quite stressed when you lose a job. To be able to cope with the situation well, you need to keep yourself in good shape. Therefore, it is always advisable to eat properly, exercise regularly and allow yourself some time to relax and make fun. You can find a number of hobbies and activities that you can keep yourself involved in.

Family Issues
You job loss also has a direct effect on your family. A period of unemployment makes your family become worried and uncertain for the future. Your family can not see you unhappy. It causes a lot of worry both for you and for your entire family. Under these circumstances, it is advisable not to keep yourself aloof from the family members. Therefore, always remember to talk to family, listen to what they have to say and build the family spirit of togetherness.

Coping with Stress
One of the most important issues during the period of unemployment is coping with stress. First and foremost, you need to list all the causes of your stress. Next, you need to prepare yourself as to how you can handle each one of those cause to relieve yourself of the stress. Prioritize things, avoid isolation and join a job seeking support group.

Keeping Yourself Spirited
During a job search or after losing a job, it is natural to feel negative. If not taken care of properly, these negative emotions can also take the form of depression. In any case, you need to keep your spirits up and think positively. Think about your achievements and past successes, visualize positive results and get involved in some volunteering activities. Most importantly, get yourself surrounded with people who talk and think positively.

A New Beginning
Think and use your job loss as an opportunity to begin your career anew. It is an opportunity that will give your career a new direction. Do not think about the past, as it is over. Just try to live in the present and use your experience to prepare a plan of action for the future. Use your creativity and be flexible. Even if it is criticism, use it as a constructive tool and do not be afraid of failure. Soon, you will see that the period of job loss is over and it has given your career a whole new direction.

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